Failure - How to Overcome the Failure
Instead of using the word "Failure" we should start saying "Try More" . We used to see, people say that someone is failure. If a student not get marks up to the criteria, people say, he is a failure. If a businessman looses money, people say he is a failure. But we should think that failure is not permanent, it is not an identity. It is a result that how much you tried. Every people fail in there life, at some point of their life. It only gives you experience. It doesn't mean that a person is useless. Instead, we should think, how to overcome failure. Hence we should not demotivate other by identifying them as failure, it can lead to depression also, and then to Suicide. So we should always appreciate them to try more harder.
Never Give Up
And we should also not consider ourselves as a failure, as long as we are trying. We should always focus on how to overcome the failure.
Example- If you are a coder and you are coding something then you will obviously check the progress frequently. sometimes, you will get the result as expected and sometimes, some bugs may arise. Which mean, you need to fix that bugs. That doesn't mean that, you are no more a coder.
Same thing happen in life also, if we fail means, something we need to fix. It doesn't mean that now we have to stop working. And if we are already trying to fix the problem, then how can we accept that we are a failure.
"We fail not when we are trying,we fail when we stop"
Example- A kid falls many time while walking in beginning, but he never give up because, there is no such word like failure he has been introduced with.
So we also need to consider that as long as we are trying we are not failure.
"Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn"
This means that, if sometimes you don't reach up to the criteria, it doesn't mean that you have not learned anything. You have learned something, and next time you have to put effort to get extra than that.
People Should always Motivate other
So it should also happen that people of our Society should motivate others to do better. And if you can't motivate them, then atleast don't demotivate them.
"If you can't be part of someone's Happiness, then atleast stay away from them".
Everyone should learn the "Art of Appreciation". We should appreciate how someone's existence effect your life, how someone behave with you and society. We should not comment for what someone doing in their personal life or how successful someone is.
So we should always motivate others and ourselves to do better, to Never give up, to keep trying. Don't ever demotivate yourselves and others.
"Failure is temporary, Moving on is permanent".



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